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Making the Family Move as Stress Free as Possible for the Children

April 29, 2013 by Painter Mommy Leave a Comment

Moving home more than once is a fact of life for many of us, and whilst it can be a stressful time with its fair share of worries, there are things to do that can minimize the upheaval. Cutting ties with a much-loved district and heading off for pastures new may seem daunting, but it needn’t be. A positive outlook, plenty of planning and organization and realistic expectations all help to make moving home a rewarding experience.

 

stress_free_moving_with_childrenInvolve the children

Families on the move successfully go the distance when all members of the team are kept in the loop – and that includes the children. Right from the outset, involve the children as much as possible in planning for the move; this will help dispel any anxieties about their new lives in a new place.  Also encourage the children in sorting through and packing up their belongings, and discuss what their new rooms may look like. Have fun planning together the new layout of their bedroom.

The more time youngsters have to get used to the idea of a new home, the easier they will find it to adapt and accept the change. Most children will be reluctant at first because the idea of leaving all that is familiar can be frightening. But there is an intrepid explorer inside all children and soon they will become curious about their new home. Be prepared with lots of answers to questions about all the fun things and great activities to be enjoyed at the new house!

 

Remain positive

Remember to put the best possible spin on the situation, without being misleading – keeping any doubts or misgivings about relocating hidden, as children pick up on these and will worry. Accentuate all the great reasons for moving home, such as being closer to other family members, making new friends, having a bigger bedroom or garden, being closer to the shops, playground, beach, etc.

There will be a million and one things to do in the run up to moving day. Involving the children in the planning and packing reinforces the reality of what is happening and helps them adjust to the situation in an involving, non-passive way. Transporting all the contents of a house or apartment is a huge job but significant savings can be achieved by doing things independently, organizing the hire of convenient shipping pods that offer a cost effective and simple way of self-moving belongings either right across the country or just into the next town.

Once safely installed in the new home children can explore and begin to enjoy their new environment. At first children may be a little clingy and it’s important to be reassuring and there for them. Quickly establish routines at the new house, getting meal and bed times regular is important as this semblance of normality will be comforting.  Find local clubs for the sports or activities that children enjoy and take them along for a look, but don’t expect too much enthusiasm at first, there may well be a little shyness to overcome.

Attitude is everything when moving home. Keeping things happy and upbeat, accentuating the positives and embracing the new – there is no reason why a change of location shouldn’t be a fun adventure for all the family.

 

Helping Your Child through the Challenges of MOVING

November 7, 2012 by Painter Mommy Leave a Comment

It can be difficult for parents to deal with the moving process, but it can also be hard on their children.  It is not easy leaving the stable and familiar for something unfamiliar.  In many cases moving means a new school, new friends, and a new environment.  It’s not that kids don’t like changes, they are just more vulnerable to them.

With the proper explanation you can help your child to understand.  But be sure to tell them as soon as the idea appears.  Don’t hide it.  The more time they have to get used to the idea of relocating will help them to accept the idea.

Emphasize on the positive aspects and involve them in the decision making process.  Knowing the reason why the move is necessary can help them understand the situation better.  It will be stressful for them at first, but with time it will get better.

If you are moving locally, you can take a day off to give your child a tour of their new home. Explain to them where each room will be positioned and focus on where their room will be. Let them see the view from the window, look around and explore. This will hint that the decision of relocation is final. Talk to your children about  the way they imagine their future room.

On “Moving Day”, be sure to give special attention to your child by allowing them to keep a few of their favorite toys with them or even have a new toy ready to give them.  This may help ease their anxiety so that they won’t feel too sad about moving. Assure your child that many other pleasant things are awaiting him/her once you get there and settle down.

The little ones enjoy being part of what adults do, so you can allow your child to help unpack clothes and arrange them in drawers. Give your child the impression that he/she is in charge and you’re only helping. Ask him/her where they want to put a certain item and give your opinion on how it will look like there.

Once you’ve arranged furniture and settled down, organize a party in order for you to meet the neighbors and for your children to have the chance to make new friends. Take care of your children’s favorite treats and drinks, and make the day special and worth remembering. This will definitely cheer your kid up like any other fun activity. Socializing is a step forward for your child to feel the new place as a safe home.

In the meantime, pay as much attention to your kid as you can, observing his/her mood and asking about the way he/she feels. Do whatever you can to make your child feel comfortable so that you can feel that way too.  Communication is important, so make your children believe that the new place is going to be even better than the old one. Talk about the possibilities, the nearby park with plenty of fun stuff to do there, for instance.  With time your child will accept the move to your new home and you will, once again, fall into a normal and everyday routine.

Guest Post Bio: Grace is a happy mother and desperate housewife wishing to share tips and tricks.  Enjoy her publications at www.londonremovals.co.uk

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